Friday, April 22, 2022

The Finish Line!

 


The finish line is the line marking the end of a race. When I think of a finish line, I think of the checkered finish line in the road and the checkered flag at the Daytona 500. Or, the ribbon stretched across the finish at a marathon race. In our lives, we see finish lines of all types and for all varieties of activities. You can have finish lines that are represented by actual lines, or finish lines that are a timeclock ticking down to 0:00 in a sporting contest. In your workplace you may have finish lines that include due dates or deadlines. Your ultimate work finish line may be the day you retire and walk out of the office for the last time with a few boxes of awards, plaques, photos and personal items. On your way to the work finish line you may have set up other finish lines along the way towards retirement including a target 401K balance or a certain number of years of service for a pension. 

 Most often we run a race to be one of the winners. We all would like to have a gold, silver or bronze medal hung around our necks at the finish line. Some races are ran with the goal of just getting to the finish line with a sense of accomplishment for our grit and determination to see the task completed. I've never run a marathon, but I'm sure just getting across that finish line is a prize in itself.  Some finish lines are never reached. Striving for the finish line of a perfect lawn, a perfect home and a perfect life can never be completed. There will always be another weed pop up in the lawn or issue that needs to be fixed in our home or life. The finish line can get close then get pushed far ahead. The pursuit of the finish line in these cases can lead one to frustration and stress that does not add to your quality of life.

My wife and I have been in Houston since last October at MD Anderson for her cancer treatment. This particular task has been the hardest we have been through but the finish line is in sight. She has crossed one finish line with the ringing of the bell at the conclusion of her chemotherapy treatments. The second finish line is less than four weeks away with another bell to be rung after radiation treatments are done. I know she can't wait to cross that finish line and ring that bell! As all finish lines, this one will be the end of a temporary situation that will soon be replaced with new experiences and excitement and new finish lines to strive for! This finish line is one of those that is a great accomplishment and comes with no medal. But, it comes with a prize of getting a new start on the next chapter of life. 

Our entire life is a long race with a finish line at the end. Some race towards it with reckless abandon and no thoughts or concern about the others in the race. Some race with compassion and love and help others along the way. As we travel on our race path of life, we must focus on the race journey and not the race end. Life has been compared to a train ride on which you need to enjoy the scenery on the way to the last stop. Often it is hard not to be in a hurry to reach the finish line and check the task off of our to do list. I am as guilty as the next in this regard and am often thinking of "what's next" before completing "what's now". 

As we go through this short life of ours we all need to slow down, smell the roses and enjoy the scenery while running the good race. One definition of "run a good race" is to live one's life in an ethical, virtuous, and spiritually fulfilling manner. 

2 Timothy 4:7-8 says I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that Day, and not only to me but also to all who have loved his appearing.

So, get out there and run your races, whatever they may be, and remember to run it well! 

8 comments:

  1. Sending healing thoughts your way.

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  2. Very nicely written! Lots of things to think about. I want to live the good race and be able to say what Paul said in 2 Timothy as he was nearing the end of his race called life.

    I'm sure your wife and you are looking forward to whatever new chapter and journey awaits ahead after that bell is rung in the next four weeks.

    betty

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    1. Thanks for the nice comment. We are very ready to get past this chapter and on to the next one.

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  3. I would like to wish the very best for you and your wife. Congratulations on nearing a return to normal life. My time at MDA quickly approaches. I have been told to prepare for 4 months, if nothing goes wrong. The phrase "if nothing goes wrong" has been repeated enough I am pretty sure something frequently goes wrong. I am putting this off for as long as I can. I don't like the odds, but they are the only odds I have.

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    1. MDA is the place to be for treatment. I highly recommend the Hospitality Apartments that we are at. It is a non-profit operated 44 unit apartments offered at no cost. Call them and get on the wait list as soon as you can 713-790-1141. It has been a great place to stay while going through a difficult time. Good luck with your own treatment!

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  4. Wow, that’s tough and I’m very sorry about your wife’s illness. I hope things continue to go well with treatment and that life’s finish line is far, far in the future with many more pleasant adventures and roses to smell along for you both along the way.

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    1. Thanks for the well wishes. We are certainly looking forward to being home and getting back to regular life.

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